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MOTIVATE ME: Everything You Need to Know About the Daniel Fast

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In the beginning of each year thousands of believers in God (Jesus) are going on a Daniel Fast. While some fully understand what it is and how to do it, others are new to the idea of fasting and need more help than others.  In the next few paragraphs I will talk about the What, Why and the How of the Daniel Fast.

What is Fasting?


Fasting ALWAYS involves FOOD! You might have heard some say: “I am fasting my friends,” or “I am fasting television,” etc. However these people misunderstand what fasting is and isn’t. The Hebrew word for fast means “to cover the mouth.” The Greek word for fast means “to abstain from food.” While we do need to get away from every day destructions of our lives and spend time alone with God, away from people, fasting is always about restricting food! Everything else is self-discipline and dying to our flesh. So, to truly benefit from the fast one would have to restrict/change their normal food intake.

Fasting is a spiritual discipline. It is done not so we can change God’s mind, but rather to get quiet before Him, so we can hear what He is speaking. When we satisfy our flesh with everything that it demands we tend to drown out God’s voice because we become very preoccupied with self-gratification. During fasting we take charge of our flesh, making it a servant to our spirit, and thus we are able to get in tune with what the Holy Spirit is speaking to us.

Fasting is NEVER to be done to show off what one might perceive as spirituality. Jesus was very clear on the subject.

“Moreover, when you fast, do not be like the hypocrites, with a sad countenance. For they disfigure their faces that they may appear to men to be fasting. Assuredly, I say to you, they have their reward. But you, when you fast, anoint your head and wash your face, so that you do not appear to men to be fasting, but to your Father who is in the secret place; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly.” (Matthew 6:16-18)

So, when you fast, don’t toot your own horn, don’t brag about what you are doing and how you are “sacrificing” something for God—let the Lord be your Rewarder, not men! However, if you are taking part in a congregational fast, feel free to invite others to join, with humility. You might find that having outside support will help you be more diligent about your efforts as well.

What is the Daniel Fast?

The Daniel Fast is a Biblically based partial fast* based on two instances of Daniel’s fasting experiences.

“Please test your servants for ten days, and let them give us vegetables to eat and water to drink.” (Daniel 1:12)

“In those days I, Daniel, was mourning three full weeks. I ate no pleasant food, no meat or wine came into my mouth, nor did I anoint myself at all, till three whole weeks were fulfilled.” (Daniel 10:1-2)

Based on the information that we glean from these references we understand that the Daniel Fast eating plan is vegan in nature, with additional restrictions. In the first Scripture, we see that Daniel ate only:

  • Only Fruits and Vegetables
  • And drank ONLY water

Which would also mean that he ate no processed, artificial, or chemically altered foods. From the second Scripture, we learn that Daniel’s diet did not allow:

  • Animal products
  • Pleasant/precious food, which would include all sweeteners, including honey, agave syrup, maple syrup, etc.
  • Alcohol

It has become a tradition that during the Daniel Fast people abstain from

  • Any kind of leavened bread (anything made with yeast, baking powder, baking soda, etc.)

However, digging into the Scriptures, you could not find a reference indicating that it should be the case. If we did the 21 fast, which is referred to in Daniel 10, then what Daniel said was as follows:

“I ate no choice food; no meat or wine touched my lips; and I used no lotions at all until the three weeks were over.” (v 3).

I know that some translations say: “I ate no pleasant bread,” while others say: “I ate no desirable bread” and yet others say: “I didn’t eat any good-tasting food.”

I know some refer to Daniel 1 for food guidelines: fruit, veggies only. However, the chapter never says how long Daniel and his friends ate that way, neither does the Bible call it a fast.

 

Why the Daniel Fast?

Fasting is not a diet! Fasting is not done for weight loss! Fasting is ALWAYS done for spiritual purposes. Fasting should be done with a PURPOSE! Before you begin the fast you should decide on the purpose of your fast. Without a purpose, you will be simply dieting. Take the time to prayerfully consider the reason of your fast.

What is your greatest need at this time? Can your marriage grow stronger? Are you facing financial difficulties? Do you want to learn to trust God and develop a deeper relationship with Him?

Take the time in prayer to decide on the purpose of your fast.

When you are fasting, set time aside for prayer, worship, meditation and Bible study. Keep a journal of your revelations, of what God is speaking to you. Invite the Holy Spirit to guide you and to reveal areas in your life that need purification.

What Happens During the Fast?


Daniel Fast is undertaken by people of all ages for many various reasons. However, whatever your need/reason is you can be certain that your entire being will benefit from it: Spirit, Soul and Body.

We are a triune being. When we fast we learn to allow God-intended order into our life: human is a spirit that possesses a soul and lives in a body.

Body
Our bodies are most definitely going to be effected as we change our diet for 21 days. For some the change is going to be very dramatic. You might experience detoxing from food addictions, such as: caffeine, processed or unnatural foods, chemicals and sugar.

The symptoms that accompany detox process might be light or more pronounced: headaches, leg cramps, fatigue, nausea and even light depression. As the body will detox, the symptoms will alleviate and you will experience more energy, better sleep, clearer and sharper mind, and many other benefits. So, take the time to ride it out.

Soul
The soul is the central place of our emotions, intellect and will. It is the place where we make decisions, experience anger, fear, love, frustration and cravings. The soul is frequently referred to as “the flesh” in the Bible.

During the fast your soul may rebel against the change in your diet. You will get an opportunity to experience and win this battle over the flesh, which might prove to be one of the most powerful lessons of the fast.

Spirit
Our spirit is the part of us that has been born again when we gave our lives over to Christ. It should be the part that surrenders to God. When we are fully surrendered we can truly abide with the Father and the Son. Our spirit is filled with the Holy Spirit if we yield to Him.

The purpose of the fast is to place our spirit in control of the other two parts of us: soul and body. When our flesh is acting out with a craving, we take control of it with our spirit (just imagine as parents would take control of a rebellious child).

 

Preparing for the Daniel Fast

In addition to spending time in prayer to decide on the focus of your fast you should take the time to prepare your body as well. Start easing off things that you feel you cannot live without: ease off caffeine, sugar, animal (if you eat an omnivorous diet) and processed foods. Try to do it before the first day of the fast, otherwise you might experience mild-to-strong detox symptoms: headaches, cramping, nausea, etc.

I would also strongly suggest for you not to go on an eating binge of all your favorite food the night before your fast begins! I call it the Last Supper when I train people. First, it really shows that your flesh is stronger than your spirit, secondly, it will be harder for you to start the fast because processed, animal and fatty foods will create a craving that will be hard to deal with for days to come.

To prepare for the fast, start drinking more water to flush out toxins faster and make the transition easier.

A Word About Water

If you don’t drink enough water, your body is probably used to storing water. Water retention=extra unwanted weight. Before and during the fast you need to learn to consume enough water to stay hydrated. How much water exactly? While there is no specific formula, the suggestion is:

HALF OF YOUR BODY WEIGHT IN OUNCES

So, if you weigh 180 lbs., you should drink 90 oz. of filtered water a day.

By increasing fluid consumption you will help your body to flush out toxins and train it not to store extra water. You can drink warm/hot water throughout the day with a wedge of lemon to help reduce fluid retention. However, make sure that you the water you drink is without chemicals as much as possible.

The longer you consume Daniel Fast diet, the more you will find that eventually you not be as thirsty anymore, since most of your foods will keep their natural juices: fruits, vegetables, blended smoothies, etc. You will learn to follow your body’s thirst and hunger signals, as it gets more adapted to a cleaner diet.

During the Fast

Physically, especially in the beginning of the fast, you might experience hunger pains. Before going for a snack or a meal drink some water—most people misunderstand signs of dehydration for hunger. If you drink some water the “hunger” pains might go away. If hunger does not go away, make sure to snack, not to experience sugar spikes.

The purpose of the fast is not to simply change the foods you eat but also to restrict how much you eat, so learn to spend the time you would normally spend eating in prayer and meditation. However it is also advisable that you eat smaller meals throughout the day instead of three huge “square” meals and overwhelm your body. By “snacking” throughout the day, you will be able to aid your body in processing the foods you eat faster and easier, while maintaining the level of clarity needed to perform daily tasks.

Spiritually, you will experience a more successful fast when you spend time each day in prayer and communion with God. Establish a time during the day for quite time and meditation on the Word of God. Study His Word and seek His face. You might have to set aside some time at home, or, if you have a long commute to and from work, take it to talk to the Savior, worship and listen to an audio Bible.

Emotionally, you might be tempted during the fast to break a few “rules” and eat/drink something your body craves. For example, you might decide not to drink water only but include herbal teas. However, think that Daniel refused to eat any pleasant food/drinks, and for the most part the herbal teas that we consume are to add a pleasant taste. There are exceptions when you might be drinking certain herbs for therapeutic reasons, such as parsley, chamomile or clover teas.

If the temptation comes, I hope you can learn a lesson by examining yourself. Ask yourself why you would want the thing you desire. If you respond in the manner that will indicate that it is because YOU WANT it, it will be a good time to exercise control over your flesh and show it who is truly in control. However, I would highly recommend not to get too legalistic with some of the guidelines—after all, it is the condition of your spirit (your heart) that matters most to God. So, if drinking an herbal tea is not a big deal (an addiction) for you, and you decide to do it, do so, with peace in your heart.

 

Daniel Fast Approved Foods

I found a great list of foods on-line that is Daniel Fast friendly. You can print it out and take it with you when you go grocery shopping.


All fruits. These can be fresh, frozen, dried, juiced or canned. However, you will fill much better physically if you consume fresh fruit. If you decide on canned fruit, make sure that no sweeteners of preservatives were used in the process. I also would suggest avoiding juiced fruit (if you juice at home), as the released sugars will spike your blood sugar levels too fast. By keeping the fiber you will still enjoy the fruit, while also keeping your body happy.

Fruits include but are not limited to: apples, apricots, bananas, blackberries, blueberries, boysenberries, cantaloupe, cherries, cranberries, figs, grapefruit, grapes, guava, honeydew melon, kiwi, lemons, limes, mangoes, nectarines, oranges, papayas, peaches, pears, pineapples, plums, prunes, raisins, raspberries, strawberries, tangelos, tangerines, watermelon.

All vegetables. These can be fresh, frozen, dried, juiced or canned. Same rule would apply to canned vegetables as to that of fruit.

Vegetables include but are not limited to: all kinds of greens, artichokes, asparagus, beets, broccoli, Brussels sprouts, cabbage, carrots, cauliflower, celery, chili peppers, collard greens, corn, cucumbers, eggplant, garlic, ginger root, kale, leeks, lettuce, mushrooms, mustard greens, okra, onions, parsley, potatoes, radishes, rutabagas, scallions, spinach, sprouts, squashes, sweet potatoes, tomatoes, turnips, watercress, yams, zucchini.

All whole grains, including but not limited to: whole wheat, brown rice, millet, quinoa, oats, barley, grits, whole wheat pasta, whole wheat tortillas, rice cakes and popcorn.

All nuts and seeds, including but not limited to: sunflower seeds, cashews, peanuts, sesame. Also, additive free nut butters including peanut butter, although I highly recommend avoiding peanut butter, unless it is freshly made, as it might be highly processed and roasted oils (as found in roasted nuts) are harmful to our health.

All legumes. These can be canned or dried. If canned, make sure not preservatives or sugars were used.

Legumes include, but are not limited to: dried beans, pinto beans, split peas, lentils, black eyed peas, kidney beans, black beans, cannellini beans, white beans.

Beverages: spring water, distilled water or other pure waters.

Other: soy sauce, vinegar, seasonings, salt (sea or Himalayan salt preferred, see below for a detailed explanation), herbs and spices.

Salt
Table Salt is highly processed, and most of the times not vegan in nature, which means it has some sort of animal residue in it, due to processing. Oftentimes, to bleach salt it is processed through crushed animals bones. Not only that, but since it is highly processed it has NO nutritional value and is sure to raise your blood pressure.

As humans we need very little salt in our diet and we regularly consume way too much of it. This fast will be an opportunity for you to retrain your body to eat healthier… and to feel better! If you do decide to use salt, buy the kinds still have minerals in it, such as Sea or Himalayan salt.

 

Foods to Avoid on the Daniel Fast

All meat and animal products including but not limited to: beef, lamb, pork, poultry, and fish.

All dairy products including but not limited to:milk, cheese, cream, butter, and eggs.

All sweeteners including but not limited to:sugar, raw sugar, honey, syrups, molasses, and cane juice.

All sweet baked goods.

All refined and processed food products including but not: limited to artificial flavorings, food additives, chemicals, white rice, white flour, and foods that contain artificial preservatives.

All deep fried foods including but not limited to:potato chips, French fries, corn chips.

All solid fats including shortening, margarine, lard and foods high in fat.

Beverages including but not limited to: coffee, tea, carbonated beverages, energy drinks, and alcohol.

Read the Labels
I would strongly suggest not using any packaged (boxed), canned or bottled foods during the fast. However, if you do, please remember to READ THE LABELS! Foods should be sugar and chemical free. Using boxed whole wheat pasta products, as long as they contain basic ingredients, should be just fine.

Medication & Supplements during the Fast
You should seek the advice of your health care practitioner about medications you might be taking. If you depend on them for any serious reason DO NOT discontinue them without first advising your doctor. Supplements are food for the most part and can be safely taken during Daniel Fast.

Special Note: if you have health issues, please be sure to contact your health professional for advice before committing to any fast. You can print out the list of foods you will be using on the Daniel Fast and take it with you.

Daniel Fast is very sound and safe and most practitioners will be more than happy to approve it. However, if in doubt, check it out!

 

A True Fast

In all things, I would like to remind you that being legalistic about these guidelines is not the best decision. After all, a true fast happens in the heart of the person fasting—it is much more important than the foods s/he eats. If you end up being stranded somewhere and cannot fulfill the fast guidelines you choose, you will have to eat what you can. Maintaining a heart of worship and humility is going to be what matters in the end. That is the fast that the Lord chooses.

Read Isaiah 58:6-9 (and the whole chapter) (NIV):

“Is not this the kind of fasting I have chosen:
to loose the chains of injustice and untie the cords of the yoke, to set the oppressed free and break every yoke?

Is it not to share your food with the hungry and to provide the poor wanderer with shelter—when you see the naked, to clothe them, and not to turn away from your own flesh and blood?

Then your light will break forth like the dawn, and your healing will quickly appear; then your righteousness will go before you, and the glory of the Lord will be your rear guard.

Then you will call, and the Lord will answer; you will cry for help, and he will say: Here am I.”

 

I hope to see you there, and I wish God’s blessings for you. May He answer your prayers and may you successfully subdue your flesh into a full submission to your spirit.

Blessings
As you start on your fast I pray God’s blessings for you. May He answer your prayers and may you successfully subdue your flesh into a full submission to your spirit. Remember that “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.” (Hebrews 13:8) If He could do a miracle in our lives, He is sure capable to do it for you too, because “…with God all things are possible.” (Matthew 19:26)

 

Step 1: Be Specific
Daniel was not vague in his objection to the Babylonian diet. He defined the problem immediately.

  1. The king’s food was against dietary laws.
  2. Daniel and his friends had vowed against wine.
  3. The king’s food had been offered up to idols/demons.

Step 2: Fast as a Spiritual Commitment
The Daniel Fast involves a spiritual commitment to God. “Daniel proposed in his heart that he would not defile himself” (Daniel 1:8).

Step 3: Reflect Inner Desire by Outer Discipline
Many people have an inner desire for better health, but they can’t discipline themselves to avoid junk food, and other foods that are not good for their health. The physical health you seek from God may be more than an answer to prayer. Your physical health can be linked to any of the following factors:

  1. Your food choices.
  2. The level of your spiritual commitment as reflected in constant prayer during the fast.
  3. Your time commitment. If you determine to fast for a certain time, keep it. For example, if you determine to fast 10 days, don’t stop on Day 9.
  4. Your testimony commitment. Your fast is a statement of faith to God that you want Him to heal your body, and faith is foundational to the Daniel Fast.

Step 4: Pray to Perceive Sin’s Role in Poor Health
Notice James 5:13-16:

  • Sin is something related to the cause of sickness.
  • Lack of health/healing may be the result of spiritual rebellion.
  • Lack of health/healing may be due to sin of wrong intake, i.e. drugs, pornography.
  • Repentance is linked to health according to James.
  • Elders have a role in healing both spiritual and physical health.
  • Sick people must desire to be well
  • The anointing oil could mean
    1. Medicine for healing,
    2. Symbolic of the Holy Spirit, or
    3. It could be baptism
  • Prayer alone may not gain healing, faith is the major factor.
  • In Greek there are several words for “sick”. James uses “Kanino”, which not only includes disease, but also means weak or weary.
  • Attitude is important. James said, “are there any among you suffering? Let him pray. Is anyone cheerful? Let him sing psalms.”

Step 5: Fast as a Statement of Faith to Others
Daniel was making a statement of faith when he asked for only vegetables to eat and water to drink, then dared the overseer to compare the appearance of the four sons of Israel with the young men who ate the king’s food.

Step 6: Learn the Effects of the Food You Eat
Why are some foods good for us, and other foods not? What does certain food do to your body? If we really knew, there would likely be some things we would never eat again.

Step 7: Yield All Results to God
Daniel said, “as you see fit, deal with your servants” (Dan. 1:13).

Daniel 1:12
“Please test your servants for ten days, and let them give us vegetables to eat and water to drink.”

Daniel 10:3 KJV
“I ate no pleasant food, no meat or wine came into my mouth, nor did I anoint myself at all, till three whole weeks were fulfilled.”

When going on a Daniel fast, or any type of fast, if you have questions outside of what Scripture says, prayerfully seek the Lord and be led by the Spirit for the specifics for your personal fast.

Be blessed,

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(Source: Jentezen Franklin, Vegelicious, Joel Osteen)

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POWER THOUGHTS: Turn Your Struggle into Strength

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The Bible talks about a woman who was bent over and crippled for eighteen years. It doesn’t say a whole lot about her, but I can only imagine that she must have struggled a lot. I can imagine it was very difficult for her to do the things that most people take for granted every day.

But here she was hunched over and she happened to be in the synagogue on the same day that Jesus was. Now, first of all, I really commend her for this because it probably wasn’t easy for her to get to the synagogue. Most people in her situation would’ve just stayed home but she made her faith a priority.

The Bible says that when Jesus saw her, He called to her to come over to where He was. It doesn’t say exactly what he said or how far she had to come, but I find it interesting that He didn’t just walk over to her. After all, clearly it would have been easier for Him and much quicker, I’m sure. But think about it—I bet it got everyone’s attention as they watched the woman struggle to get closer to Jesus.

With every step, her actions were making a declaration of her faith. She was willing to be obedient. The Bible says as she moved toward Him, He spoke healing over her, and when she was close enough, He laid hands on her and her healing manifested!

As I was reading this passage, I thought about how we all go through struggles in life. The enemy wants to cripple our potential. He wants to push us down under a heavy load of cares, worry, or offense. Maybe you’ve been hurt, maybe you’ve been wronged by others, maybe you have anger issues, or you just feel like you’re in over your head. Maybe you have a physical ailment. Whatever it is that you’re struggling with I want you to know that Jesus is calling you today. He’s saying, “Come to me.” He’s speaking strength and healing to you. Take that step of faith toward Him. Be obedient to whatever He tells you do. You may not have seen your restoration yet, but just keep moving toward Him. His arms are outstretched toward you filled with restoration, peace, and healing; and He is ready to turn your struggle into strength!

“But when Jesus saw her, He called her to Him and said to her, ‘Woman, you are loosed from your infirmity.’ And He laid His hands on her, and immediately she was made straight, and glorified God'” (Luke 13:12, NKJV).

Love and joy to you all,

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POWER THOUGHTS: A Bump in the Road

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n First Chronicles 13, we read about the Ark of the Covenant. This was a large, ornate box where God’s presence was housed back in those days before His spirit came to dwell in believers. The Ark of the Covenant had been gone from Jerusalem for a long time, and King David had a desire to bring it back. He loved the presence of God. He had his men build a special cart pulled by oxen to carry it because it was too holy to be touched by human hands. Very carefully, they used poles to place the Ark onto this cart. The men surrounded the cart and headed toward their destiny. Everything was going great until the oxen hit a bump in the road and stumbled. The ark started to fall, and one of the men instinctively reached out to steady it. When he touched it, he instantly fell dead. David was so upset that he wouldn’t go any further. He gave up on his mission and let the Ark of the Covenant go to a house close by. The Scripture says the bump in the road occurred at a threshing floor. David saw it as a tremendous loss, but God was directing his steps. He was going to use that setback. At the threshing floor, just as wheat is separated from chaff, God was going to use that situation to refine David.

Sometimes, we’re going along in life and everything is great, but then we hit a bump in the road—we lose a loved one, a relationship doesn’t work out, the business goes down. We don’t understand what happened. But just like with David, those bumps happen at a threshing floor. When you come out, you’re not going to be the same. You’re going to be refined with less chaff and more wheat. If you look back over your life, the times when you really grew, when you came up higher and developed more confidence, wasn’t in the good times when everything was going your way; it was the times when you hit a bump in the road. You couldn’t see it in the moment, but you were at a threshing floor. God used that to refine you, and you came out better.

The threshing floor is not only a place of separation, it’s place of preparation. If David would have taken the Ark of the Covenant to Jerusalem the first time, before the bump in the road, he wouldn’t have had a place to put it. A lot of people could have been hurt. Chapter 15 says, “He went and prepared a place for the Ark.” When you hit a bump in the road, God is not only separating what’s holding you back, He’s preparing you for what’s in your future.

For three months, David was upset and weeping, thinking he would never accomplish his assignment. One day he looked out and saw the house where the Ark of the Covenant had been staying. Those people were so blessed, so prosperous, so full of God’s favor. Something rose up in him; a new fire, a new passion. He said, “God, I’ve changed my mind. I’m going to get back in the game and do what You called me to do.”

Maybe you’ve hit a bump in the road and it’s knocked the wind out of you. Like David, you don’t think you can accomplish your dreams. That threshing floor is not defeating you, it’s preparing you. You may have lost something, but you need to get ready. You’re about to gain something a whole lot better. God is getting you prepared for something amazing. Get your fire back, get your passion back. “A good man falls seven times and the Lord raises him up.” You may have fallen, but it’s time to get back up. You’re prepared; you’re qualified; you’re refined, and what God started, He’s going to complete in you!

Love and joy to you all,

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FAMILY: Receiving and Giving Love

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God is love and we are never more like Him than when we are loving others. How do we love others? Love is a choice and scripture tells us in first Corinthians 13 that when we choose to be patient, kind, humble, and forgiving, we are choosing love. It tells us that love is not easily angered but love always hopes, always perseveres, and love never fails.

When you think about what love is, do you ever find showing love difficult? Do you ever struggle with patience? Do you ever get easily angered?

One time, they asked Jesus what the greatest command is. Jesus answered by saying, “To love God with all of your heart and to love your neighbor as yourself.”

This tells me that if we are having difficulty loving others, maybe we need to love ourselves more. Are you patient with yourself or do you get down on yourself when you fall short or make a mistake? Ultimately, loving ourselves begins by receiving God’s love. We can’t give something to others unless we have first received it. We can’t love ourselves or love others without first filling up with God!

Today I pray that you experience God’s love in a fresh, new way. I pray that you understand the depth of His love and that it draw you to Him and refresh you! I pray that as you receive His love, that His love will flow through you so that you can refresh others everywhere you go!

“Love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your mind, and all your strength.’ … ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ No other commandment is greater than these.” (Matthew 12:29-31, NLT)

God Bless,

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FAMILY: Why Nagging Never Works

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“A wise, mature person is known for his understanding. The more pleasant his words, the more persuasive he is.” (Proverbs 16:21 TEV)

Have you noticed how many difficult people there are in the world? Do you feel like you have to deal with most of them some days?

You know what rude acts bug me the most? People who call me and then say, “Who is this?” People who honk their horns in traffic jams. People who cheat in the 10-items-or-less grocery line. People who steal your parking spot.

The list goes on, and I’m sure you can relate. So, how should we respond in love to difficult people?

Proverbs 16:21 says, “A wise, mature person is known for his understanding. The more pleasant his words, the more persuasive he is” (TEV).

The more pleasant you are, the more persuasive you are. And, you’re never persuasive when you’re abrasive. Nagging doesn’t work.

The way you say something determines the way it’s received. If you say something offensively, it’s going to be received defensively. That’s why love is all about your words. Love is truthful, but it is also tactful.

Tact and tone always go together. It matters the way you say something, not just whatyou say. You can say something very difficult for someone to hear, but if you say it in the right tone — a loving tone — it will be received much better.

A loving response to a difficult person requires you to be pleasant and tactful. If you want to be below that difficult person, attack him. If you want to be even with him, get even with him. But if you want to respond the way Jesus would, show that person love with the words you say and the way you say them.

 

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God Bless,

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MOTIVATE ME: Where Do You Believe God Can Use You

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So many times we think our trouble is coming from natural circumstances—the light bill, our spouse, a coworker. We think, “If that would change, things would get better.” But the Bible says that our struggles are not against flesh and blood. The real enemy isn’t what we can see. Our battle is in the heavenly realms, against the principalities of the air. (See Ephesians 6:2) That’s why prayer is a spiritual weapon in the life of the believer.

Think of it this way: let’s say you walk into a dark living room and you stub your toe on an ottoman, then step on a toy, and walk into a coffee table. You might think the problem is that ottoman was in the wrong place, the toy wasn’t picked up,  and the coffee table is too big but truthfully, you could navigate the room if you first turned on the light switch. That’s because light chases away darkness. The same is true in the spiritual realm. When we focus on the things of God through prayer and reading the word of God, you are turning on the light switch so you can navigate your life!

I want to remind you today that Jesus separated Himself for prayer. Prayer takes discipline. It takes focus. It takes commitment. But wouldn’t you rather go through life with the light on? We make time for what’s important to us. What would happen if you woke up 10 minutes early to turn in the switch of prayer?

You, Lord, are my lamp; the Lord turns my darkness into light” (II Samuel 22:29, NIV).

Bless you,

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FAMILY: Through Christ, you can conquer your habit

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“Think carefully aboutJesus.”

Heb 3:1 NLT

Let’s say you’re trying to lose weight, but you love doughnuts. How can you overcome temptation? By repeating, “I must not eat doughnuts—I must not eat doughnuts—I must not eat doughnuts”? No, the more you think about doughnuts, the more you’re going to want them. Instead you must focus on something else (or someone else—Jesus!) who can help you overcome the temptation. Your problem is not in the doughnut shop, it’s in your mind. That’s where victory is won or lost. Paul writes: “Dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice—the kind he will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship him. Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect” (Ro 12:1-2 NLT). You can lock yourself up in a room and still think about doughnuts. On the other hand, you can get your mind on Jesus, draw strength from Him, and drive victoriously past every doughnut shop in town. The same principle applies to any habit you want to break and any sin you want to conquer. Does victory come easily, or overnight? No, Satan tempted Jesus repeatedly in the wilderness, and he’ll keep tempting you until he realizes his strategies no longer work. “Then the devil left Him, and behold, angels came and ministered to Him” (Mt 4:11 NKJV). Through Christ, you can conquer your habit.

God Bless,

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Joel Osteen · Motivate Me · Motivation

MOTIVATE ME: The Yoke Destroyer is On the Way!

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God never created you to be ordinary. He created you to leave your mark on this generation. He wants you to go further than anyone in your family. You have the seeds of greatness on the inside.

I declare that yoke of average, that’s been around your neck is coming off. God is about to thrust you to a new level of destiny. It’s going to be exceedingly, abundantly above and beyond. You’re going to see the yoke-destroying, burden-removing power of our God like never before. This is a new day. Yokes of depression that have robbed you of your happiness are being destroyed. Yokes of sickness and chronic pain are being destroyed. Yokes of fear, lack of confidence and intimidation are being destroyed. That yoke of compromise that keeps getting passed down—”like father, like son”—no, they’re being destroyed. From now on, it’s going to be “like heavenly Father, like son.”

If you will receive this into your spirit and not talk yourself out of it, it will ignite your faith and become a reality. Then reinforce the truth by meditating on the Word of God. Declare, “This is my destiny. Something new is being birthed. Yokes are coming off of me. Chains are being broken. I am stepping into the fullness of my destiny in Jesus’ name!” 

Bless you,

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(Source: Joel Osteen)

 

Family · Joel Osteen

FAMILY: Be Quick to Listen

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Every person, no matter what age, has a deep need to be valued and respected. One very important way to show respect in your relationships is to make the effort to listen attentively. When you’re talking with someone, don’t multitask; give them your undivided attention. Don’t focus on what you are going to say next, zero in on the other person’s words. You may already know where the conversation is headed, but that’s okay; be considerate and let them finish anyway.

Maybe someone asks you a question and you know the answer before they finish speaking. Resist the urge to cut them off. I’ve found this to be especially important with children. I recognized early on in motherhood that my children have a need to be heard. I desire to meet that need and instill confidence in them, so I have learned to be creative when communicating with them. I do my best to give them the opportunity to share their feelings and explain their point of view. I want them to know that I value and respect what they have to say. I want to instill value in them instead of just saying, “The answer is no—just because I said so!”

As parents, I don’t believe you have to justify every parenting decision or candy-coat everything you say to your children, but you can always find a way to present your point in a positive, educational way that allows some dialogue. If you have teenagers in your house, you know how important it is for them to be heard. Don’t shut them down with “It’s not up for discussion.” Sometimes they don’t even care if they get their way; they simply want you to listen to them.

When you are quick to listen it builds confidence in your loved ones. It makes them feel valued and respected. Today, look for ways to give the gift of listening and sow seeds of life into your relationships!

Let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath” (James 1:19, NKJV).

God Bless,

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(Source: Joel Osteen)

Joel Osteen · Motivation · Power Thoughts

POWER THOUGHTS: Count it all JOY

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POWER THOUGHTS

Even though this is hard, even though I don’t understand it, even though it’s not fair, I’ll keep a good attitude and stay full of joy, knowing that this is not setting me back. It is setting me up for God to bring me through in an even better position.

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Father, today no matter what circumstances I face, I choose to count it all joy. I trust that You are with me, You are for me, and You are working behind the scenes to lead me into victory in every area of my life! In Jesus’ Name. Amen.

Love and joy to you all,

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(Source: Joel Osteen)